8 things to remember about when things go wrong

1. Pain is part of growth. Sometimes life closes the door, because it's time to move. And this is good, because we often do not start traffic unless circumstances compel us. When hard times come, remind yourself that no pain comes without a goal. Move from that which hurts you, but never forget the lesson that she teaches you. The fact that you are fighting does not mean that you fail. Every great success requires that a worthy struggle is present. Good takes time. Stay patient and confident. Everything will be alright; most likely not in a moment, but eventually everything will be ... Remember that there are two kinds of pain: the pain that hurts, and the pain that changes you. When you go through life, instead of resisting it, help it develop you. 

2. Everything in life is temporary. Always, when it's raining, you know that it will end. Every time you are hurt, the wound heals. After darkness, there is always a light - you are reminded of this every morning, but nevertheless it often seems that the night will last forever. It will not happen. Nothing lasts forever. So, if everything is good right now, enjoy it. It will not last forever. If everything is bad, do not worry, because this too will not last forever. The fact that life is not easy at the moment does not mean that you can not laugh. The fact that something is bothering you does not mean that you can not smile. Each moment gives you a new beginning and a new ending. Every second you get a second chance. Just use it. 

3. Excitement and complaints will not change anything. Those who complain the most, achieve the least. It is always better to try to do something more and fail than to try to succeed without doing anything. Nothing is over if you lose; It's all over if you're really just complaining. If you believe in something, keep trying. And no matter what happens in the end, remember that true happiness begins to come only when you stop complaining about your problems and begin to be grateful for all those problems that you do not have. 

4. Your scars are symbols of your strength. Never be ashamed of the scars left to you by life. A scar means that there is no more pain, and the wound is prolonged. This means that you have overcome the pain, learned the lesson, have become stronger and advanced. The scar is a tattoo of triumph. Do not let the scars keep you hostage. Do not let them force you to live in fear. Start considering them as a sign of strength. Jalaladdin Rumi once said: "Through the wounds, light penetrates you." Nothing can be closer to the truth. Of the suffering, the strongest souls appeared; the most influential people in this big world are marked with scars. Look at your scars as a slogan: "YES! I DID IT! I survived, and I have scars to prove it! And now I have a chance to become even stronger.

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5. Every little battle is a step forward. In life, patience is not equal to expectation; it is the ability to keep a good mood, working hard on your dreams. Therefore, if you are going to try, go to the end. Otherwise, there is no point in starting. This can mean a loss of stability and comfort for a while, and perhaps even your mind. You may not need to eat what you are accustomed to, or not sleep as much as you used to, for weeks on end. This can mean changing your comfort zone. This can mean sacrificing relationships and everything that you know. This can mean the appearance of ridicule. It can mean loneliness. Loneliness, however, is a gift that makes many things possible. You will get the space you need. All the rest is a test of your self-control, how much you really want to achieve the goal. And if you want it, you will do it, despite the setbacks and disagreements. And every step you will feel better than you can imagine. You will understand that struggle is not a barrier on the way, it is a way.

6. The negative reaction of other people is not your problem. Be sure when the bad surrounds you. Smile when others try to defeat you. This is an easy way to support your own enthusiasm. When other people say bad things about you, keep on being yourself. Never let anyone else change you. You can not take things too much to heart, even if it seems personal. Do not think that people are doing something for you. They do something for themselves. First of all, never change in order to impress someone who says that you are not good enough. Change if it makes you better and leads you to a brighter future. People will speak no matter what you do or how well you do it. Worry about yourself, not about the opinions of others. If you believe in something, do not be afraid to fight for it. Great power comes from overcoming the impossible.

7. What should happen will happen. You gain strength when you refuse to cry and complain and start to smile and appreciate your life. There are blessings hidden in every fight that you encounter, but you must be ready to open your heart and mind to see them. You can not make things happen. You can only try. At some point you have to let go of the situation and let what's intended happen. Love your life, trust your intuition, take risks, lose and find happiness, study through experience. It's a long trip. You should stop worrying, asking questions and doubting at any time. Laugh, enjoy every moment of your life. You may not know exactly where you intended to go, but you will eventually arrive where you should be.

8. Just keep moving. Do not be afraid to get angry. Do not be afraid to fall in love again. Do not let the cracks in your heart turn into scars. Understand that strength increases every day. Understand that courage is beautiful. Find in your heart what makes others smile. Remember that you do not need many people in your life, so do not seek to have more "friends". Be strong when it's hard. Remember that the universe always does what is right. Recognize when you are wrong and learn from it. Always look back, see what you have achieved, and be proud of yourself. Do not change for anyone if you do not want to. Do more. Live easier. And never stop.

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